Why We Do What We Do: Understanding Self-Motivation
Self-Determination Theory explains why external rewards often backfire and how three basic psychological needs—autonomy, competence, and connection—actually sustain genuine motivation. This skill diagnoses which need is thwarted in stuck motivation situations and creates targeted plans to restore engagement. Use it to understand your own motivation struggles or to help others (employees, children, students, athletes) flourish without controlling pressure.
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Understand which basic psychological need is thwarted and how to restore genuine motivation.
Understand which basic psychological need is thwarted and how to restore genuine motivation.
- Your situation or challenge related to Why We Do What We Do: Understanding Self-Motivation
- Manager diagnosing why incentive strategies aren't moving an underperforming employee
- Parent helping a child care about schoolwork without rewards or punishments
- Individual recognizing that external deadlines have replaced their genuine interest
- Teacher exploring why pressure and grades backfire on student engagement
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What it does, specifically.
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Needs Satisfaction Audit identifies which of three psychological needs blocks motivation in your specific situation
Needs Satisfaction Audit identifies which of three psychological needs blocks motivation in your specific situation
Motivation Continuum Map shows your current regulation stage and what one step forward looks like
Motivation Continuum Map shows your current regulation stage and what one step forward looks like
Autonomy-Support Plan teaches non-controlling language and specific behaviors to help others care
Autonomy-Support Plan teaches non-controlling language and specific behaviors to help others care
Catches common traps: reward addiction, the 'should' pattern, competence-crushing, choice-blindness
Catches common traps: reward addiction, the 'should' pattern, competence-crushing, choice-blindness
Works for personal motivation, parenting, managing teams, teaching, and coaching
Works for personal motivation, parenting, managing teams, teaching, and coaching
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Needs Satisfaction Audit
Analysis of how well the three basic needs are being met in a specific life domain
Motivation Continuum Map
Places their motivation for specific activities along the SDT continuum from amotivation to intrinsic
Autonomy-Support Plan
Concrete strategies for supporting someone else's autonomy (employee, child, student, partner)
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